The writer hails from County Antrim and has lived in the desert southwest of the United States for over 20 years. Her blog is her virtual home away from home.

  • Mother's Day

    missing mother’s day again

    In Ireland, Mothering Sunday is the fourth Sunday in Lent thereby falling on a different date every year. In America, Mother’s Day arrives each year on the second Sunday in May. As a mother living in America with a mother living in Northern Ireland, I should by now have developed a strategy to cope with this annual conundrum. Especially this year when…

  • Uncategorized

    encyclopaedia britannica – farewell for now

    Learning via Twitter that The Encyclopaedia Brittanica will no longer publish in print struck me as ironic and sad.  I know not when I last considered even consulting it, but I am very sorry to see it go. Like an old relative that I haven’t seen in some years,  The Encyclopaedia Brittanica, has an important place in my personal history,…

  • Memoir

    resuming old ways

    Only 47 days ago, a lifetime ago, my husband drove me to the hospital for the final pre-op surgical procedure: the nuclear medicine for a sentinel node biopsy which would be performed the next day at some point between the removal and reconstruction of my right breast. Just a thirty minute drive, this was enough time for me to participate,…

  • Uncategorized

    small steps are not enough

    Not to dismiss in any way the science behind it or the work of those who compiled it, but my pathology report might as well have been required reading in my high school English Literature class.  I can visualize my teenage self, poring over its language, structure, and form, trying to discern “what it’s really saying,” because I know there…