The writer hails from County Antrim and has lived in the desert southwest of the United States for over 20 years. Her blog is her virtual home away from home.

  • Uncategorized

    i’m registered

    The last time I was asked about a registry was about fifteen years ago, within the context of the room where my unborn child would eventually sleep. Would it be pink or blue? All things nice, sugar and spice or frogs and snails and puppy dog tails? Lumbering around Babies ‘R’ Us, the week before the birth of my daughter,…

  • Feminism,  Memoir

    sense and sensibility … and sensible hair

    “Didn’t we used to call you Crystal Tipps?” Why yes, you did. Relentlessly. It was funnier to you than it was to me. Teetering on the edge of adolescence in the early seventies, I instinctively knew that Crystal’s coiffure, a big triangular purple frizz, belonged only on the BBC, in the groovy world of cut-out animation created by Hilary Hayton.…

  • Breast Cancer Treatment,  Diagnosis,  fear of recurrence,  Mammograms,  Memoir

    the saturday shot … i’m expecting you

    One of the first gifts my husband ever gave me was a silver pocket compass.  While not at all useful, it is of great sentimental value.  Having noted very early in our relationship my stellar capacity for getting lost and notwithstanding the fact that I was then a novice driving on the American (and wrong) side of the road my man…